The tree:
Imagine a full grown, healthy apple tree.
(For those with poor imagination, use the picture ;))
Each branch of the tree represents a role in a person's life, such as: business owner, manager, teacher, father, brother, sister, son, daughter, friend, church-member, club-member, etc. You get the idea.
The leaves represent the memories of your success and failures–– the experiences of your life that come and go. Much like the leaves of a tree soak up light of the sun, your memories soak up the light in your life and nurture you in the different branches or roles in your life.
The fruits represent the results your life have produced. They are what you have to show for your efforts. When you share the fruits with others, and they are good fruits, then the fruits of your life will nurture others in turn.
Finally, and most importantly, beneath the tree, holding it all together and anchored into solid ground, are your roots.
A tall tree catches much wind ~ Chinese Proverb
A tall tree with shallow roots doesn't last too long in a
hurricane ~ Miami Common Sense
hurricane ~ Miami Common Sense
Roots are the most important part of a tree, aren't they? They are what keeps the tree anchored to the soil. They absorb the nutrients that feed the rest of the tree.
So what do you think the roots represent? What purpose would roots have if we were running the metaphor into your life?
So what do you think the roots represent? What purpose would roots have if we were running the metaphor into your life?
The roots are those things that feed and nurture your psyche.
The roots are your values, your principles, your paradigms,
your thoughts and beliefs that hold you up.
Top level performers in every industry are well grounded with a solid roots system. They don't second guess their ability to succeed–– and you might thing, "of course they believe in themselves, they're already successful!" And you are absolutely right: success multiplies success. However, top performers that stay top performers never forget where they came from. They believed in themselves and the results they sought to create long before the results ever showed.
Your roots system begins in your thoughts. Thoughts crystalize into actions. Actions crystalize into habits. Habits crystalize into character. Character determines your destiny! - From As a Man Thinketh by James Allen
Your roots system begins in your thoughts. Thoughts crystalize into actions. Actions crystalize into habits. Habits crystalize into character. Character determines your destiny! - From As a Man Thinketh by James Allen
What do YOU feed your roots?
Just look at my life, I thought.
What have I done that's worth anything?
I never realized how terrible self talk can destroy you until I hit rock bottom with depression. I never realized how paralyzing the words I told myself were! These were the thoughts and opinions I carried with me from my youth and upbringing.
Feed your roots positive nutrients with good uplifting books, motivational messages, and an environment conducive to growth. Practice saying out loud all the things you are grateful for. Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. You ARE beautiful. The value and potential you add to the world is unique to you. No one else in the whole planet has what you have. There is something about you that will be able to connect with a whole network of people out there that I will never touch. That John Maxwell will never touch. And all you have to do is fulfill your calling!
No matter how successful you are, there is always room for growth. Evaluate your values. Evaluate your foundations. And as long as you're intentionally (and regularly) drinking in positive nutrients, then you'll be able to feed the branches of your life–– which in turn will create great, lasting memories and good fruit!
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